Sick Week x3 (Thoughts on Sick Time at Work)

As a leader, I've taken a realistic approach to my team members' needs when caring for their kids. Even before I had children, it was apparent how difficult balancing work and parenting was, and I didn't want to make it more complicated. I remember seeing the relief from team members when I would talk about finding them some flexibility when a child was sick. The rest of the team would often be at the ready, already aware of the situation and offering to fill in the gaps.


The business need is a fundamental consideration; I know that. What's also true is that there is often more flexibility than we realize, especially when the leader builds a team on foundations of respect and collaboration. People want to help each other, and those who gain from this don't usually forget it. They often repay the favor when called upon, building upon a network of goodwill that can elevate a team to be more effective and robust. The business does better when the teams take care of each other, and that starts with the leader authentically modeling empathy and flexibility.

These thoughts came to mind because I'm coming off a three-week period where a wave of sickness hit everyone in the house. My full-time job is to stay home with one of our kids, so it kept me busy. Of course, my wife, who works full time, also did an incredible amount in addition to her demanding job. If you have kids, you know everyone is wiping noses and cuddling between sales presentations and Zoom calls. Your children don't care if you are working, and that's particularly true if you're doing so remotely. They need you.

We're on the other side of it now, with the children healthy and my wife and I back to our usual selves. While this, by definition, isn't a job because it doesn't pay the bills, it is an integral part of my personal and professional life, and I'm taking my own advice to get back to it. So I'm in the studio again, and even though my daily time for creating is limited, it's good to be back.

Thanks for being patient. There's more coming.